I knew awhile ago, SA. I just didn't know how to say it. I hate to think that my calling it over & filing will hurt some people here. I am not a DB success in the terms that I got my H back & outlasted his MLC.

I am proof that there is a life beyond this hell we are going through. Doing the work on yourself is the right thing to do. Building a life that you like--by yourself and for yourself--is the best way to ensure that you WILL be happy.

It won't matter if the MLCer ever comes out of it.

Because you will have made it through it.



Perfectly imperfect.



And ready to live life.



Thank you.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.