How to tell the kids

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DanF,

Thank for the response to my thread today!

I guess we both have been having one of those days.

It is scary to lose the family you have/had. I feel the same way. Now is the time to think about the family you will have with your kids.

I have been emotional today about her and our family we had in my sitch. I need to remain focused on my kids and the R and family I will have with them when the D is final.

Do not talk about anything regarding the case because it will help the WAS in the custody and other issues. It is difficult, but you have to do it.

Keep all language clean, so there is nothing against you even with people that are helping her for your sake. Don't give any ammunition to her.

Try to detach as much as possible because you are divorcing, and let her know how it will be without you.

Keep positive and take care of yourself.