Saturday night update I stayed up late reading some threads. I found some good advice on Quicksilvers thread. Been "copying and pasting" things that strike me to a word document. I also watched the MWD video that I think Allen referred to. Might be toucht to try to get W's mom involved in BD'ing. Though from my recollection she hasn't been spending much time with her mom. Mostly "friends". Interesting.
So I did the lawn, washed the car and did some driving in the convertible. A little me time. Tonight I'm cooking steak and shrimp; a little red wine and a fire on the deck. Haven;t heard "boo" from W all weekend.
Fine by me. Though I'd still prefer to know when she is keeping D overnight "somewhere" and not at home. Wondering if she'll be home tonight.
So odd to wonder "if my wife will be home tonight?"
Feeling pretty good. Talked to a freiend/neighbor and his wife about the sitch. They were mildly surprised at how well I'm "dealing with this". I said "Time is my ally. The more I have to work with, the more I can change and the better I can prepare for being on my own again."
