1. Porn addiction - this may be the source of his disrespect 2. Porn use contaminating the marriage 3. Your passive support of the porn use
The question isn't if its cheating Laura, the question is
a. Is this good or bad for the marriage? b. If it is bad, is your husband willing to do the work necessary to change the behaviour?
I normally will tell people outright it will do more harm than good.
I have heard a few arguments about porn being healthy for a marriage, but most of the data is leaning towards it being a parasite at best...
1. How long has he been using porn? 2. Did you ask him to stop and what was his reaction? 3. How much pressure has been put on him to stop?
The other concern I have here when it is at a 5 month point is that porn use often leads to internet affairs and you don't want that to happen trust me.. Been there
