You are worth too much to be a doormat. I know that I felt terrible--about the sitch, about myself--trying to be Little Bo Peep. But once I stood up for myself and said no more bs, I realized that I do deserve much better than how BF was treating me.
I think it's time to adopt Stuart Smalley's motto: "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me."
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g