I've had enough of the OW, the emotional abuse, the lies. It is the hardest thing I've had to do but I"m going to try the walk away. I need to move on, it's been 10 months of DB.
The DB coach said to make the most of "family time" and be H's friend but everyone on this forum says to make the WAS feel the reality of being D. I have allowed too much cake eating and being a doormat. All that lingo is to say, I"m going to work very hard on just focussing on moving on. If he comes back someday, that will be dealt with at the time. But he needs to feel me pulling away to change the dynamic. Wish me luck friends.
