Thanks Allen for advising me to expose to our visiting friends. That helped us to avoid some major problems. They actually helped us avoid much contact with the OM today, although W did go up to talk to him at one point and I just went to stand beside her and didn't say anything.

I'm starting to think that it's very possible that W was planning to meet up with OM on the trip that she was planning to Puerto Rico, because our friends have almost convinced her to use her vacation time to visit them instead (with me and the kids) and when they left from visiting us, W went out (I think to call OM because that's what she does when she won't tell me where she's going).


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.