My H texted me our secret code word for "I love you".
I waited about an hour and texted him back. I wasn't going to but I thought why in hell sit here and stew.
My text to him: While I am sure you sent this text with the best of intentions I feel it is very insensitive given the choices you made to text me on what should have been our 11 yr. wedding anniversary.
As I suspected he didn't text back. I am sure he is thinking what a bitch I am after he did *such* a nice thing. Unreal.
This is the THIRD wedding anniversary we have been apart, the third wedding anniversary he has been with OW and the third anniversary he contacted me.
He has NO regard for my feelings. NONE. And he thinks he is being nice.