Thanks for the reminder Bluestar. Guess I need to be reminded and whipped out of this funk.
I was thinking about getting a keystroke logger to track her on my computer, but that probably isn't a good idea either, huh? I am wanting to find out if she is still talking to this OM and I thought maybe there would be some e-mails or something like that going on. She is deleting e-mails with any references to our sitch immediately. I just happened to catch one to/from a friend of ours this morning and she had it deleted off about 2 hrs later. I know I need to GAL and move on, and I have been doing things with friends, but it is so hard. I am scared to lose my family.
I am going to go for 50% placement too. that may enable me to keep the house, which I think may be best for the kids.
the list sandi gave me said it was OK to invite your spouse on outings with you, but not to let her decision affect whether or not you will go. I got invited to our friends annual summer party last night and the that couple asked me to invite her too. That is on July 31. They also asked me and the kids to go to the Rennisance Faire with them in 2 weeks and I was thinking about asking W to come also.
Should I not do that and just take the kids and not her events?
We also do a vacation for a week at a lake every summer and she still wants to do that together. My brother suggested that I tell her we should split the cabin for a week with me going 1/2 with the kids and her going 1/2. I told her I wasn't sure about that at first, but have since agreed. As we are likely to still be living in the same house at that time anyway, living in the same cabin would just be the same.
