YOu need to MINIMIZE contact Antonia, NOT INCREASE it...

Did you read DR at all?

It's pretty clear in there that you need to distance yourself from his addiction, not chase him like a puppy dog arguing like you have been...

Did you read the ebook i posted from Penny at all?

You are just working from instincts here at that is NOT a good idea

You need a plan that you follow TO THE LETTER...