Can you trust that he will take him to a doctor though? Because in my case, a few months back, I really wanted to take S in. He hadn't started to get better after 4-5 days. stbxh said "he is ok- he just needs to rest and have lots of fluids" JUST LIKE DAN said! But my mother's intuition was shouting at me so I said (surprising myself) "Well, I'm going to take him in. If you want to come along, you can." We went in, he had an ear infection, RSV, fever, and needed a nebulizer plus antibiotics! stbxh said "I should never doubt mother's intuition."

But the difference was that he was returning S to me and so it was my day with him. Still, I think that due to the fact that Nathan is sick, it is ok if you butt in! if you really are worried, it is worth insisting!

Not that Nathan will get worse, right? Would he be okay if you took him in on Monday?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004