The only thing I would add is try not to ask him again if he is still going to divorce you. You put it out there, now you have to walk away from it like you can take it or leave it.
Always remember than even a divorce doesn't necessarily mean the end. After my D from my first husband, he wanted to reconcile. I couldn't do it. By that time, I was done with him and the rollercoaster he'd put me through with his affair. I did go out on a couple of dates with him after our D but ultimately, I was the one the walk away. (And it felt GOOD I might add!)
