I might add... it's different: I've never done anything to justify him feeling that way...he has! OK, well, I'm not going to say I've never done anything that would make him unhappy, but I've never done anything that's a personal assault on him. I've never withheld affection from him or told him I wanted out, or acted cold. My biggest crime was being depressed. I've never acted mean, angry, or cold.