Oh I see what you mean. Ugh, it's not easy to detach when you see them all the time! It helps when they act really douchey. And you can know you're better without them! It's worse when they act normal. Grr.....

I am fascinated by your correspondence with FIL. Was there no OW in his situation?

me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.