Puppy, I was refering to no affairs on my part. I agree completely with what you said about emotional affairs.

Yesterday I found out the my wife is now running in the morning with a single guy. I don't know what she is thinking. How can she think that is ok to do? I would never ever think about going running with a single woman, especially right now. Then last night she emailed me that she's been doing the divorce paperwork online and plans to file next week. I've lost hope. She's not in her right mind and I feel like there's nothing I can do to change that.