Sandi, I don't have a RO yet. The court said I couldn't get one on a non-family member, but I may be able to get a stalking injunction, so I'll try that next week.
I'll go to church, but W doesn't let me hold her hand. I haven't touched her for months now. And Allen is right, the church people are not much help when I have to deal with OM in church.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.