Hi again ssmguy,
I was writing my little 'book' above, while Cyrena was posting that your W had be abused as a child. I hadn't known that while I was posting. Just wanted to say I was so sorry to read that - how sad. It must be a difficult thing for you BOTH to work through. Don't know if any of what I wrote above helps, but still, am thinking good thoughts for both of you that you're able to reconnect and find a compromise that works for you both.


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.