It goes back to boundaries. Have you established boundaries with her concerning the OM?
It sounds like you and the OMW are powerless. Not so. Has she ever tried stopping her H?
They've BOTH been powerless, thru this entire ordeal.
Good lord.
Puppy
It's not just those two Pup, the church heads aren't doing anythign about OM shoving Ken in a church either.. OM should have been BANNED on the SPOT for that... A bunch of spineless hypocrites running that church I say...