I say you GO

You stay by her side and hold her hadn teh whole time...

If she wants to go to the ladies room you walk her there and wait at the door

If they DO end up talking you casue a scene and break it up Ken... You EXPOSE in CHURCH what they aer DOING

I strongly suspect your wife knows OM is going and this thing about her friends speaking is just an excuse...

You GO Ken.. don't hide in your home.. you GO and you protect her and your kids while you are there...