Irish all this stuff and your childhood history points to a tendency toward the rescuer/fixer.
Yep, there's a fine line between interdependency and codependency.
And that line is... the ability to let those around you make mistakes and even fail and deal with the consequences of their mistakes and failures without feeling like you need to rescue them or prevent them from making the mistakes or failing.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-