Originally Posted By: irish
Good Lord - no wonder you have to detach - it's in it's out it's up it's down - the MLC Dance!


Yup!

Irish this is a process.

First step:

Originally Posted By: mach
I would just like to see you focus on Irish more now...


I know you are worried about how H will see and/or react to your detaching...

There is one thing that I can tell from my own experience.

You cannot guarantee that what you do will save save your M...

No matter what YOU do.

The ONLY thing I can tell you is that only YOU can save YOU.

To follow on this...

You will do more damage to your R with H and more importantly to YOU if you don't get yourself the the healthy place we speak of.

You have to take care of YOU first.

There is widely accepted wisdom around here:

Nothing you do will make your MLCer move through their journey quicker BUT

...your actions sure can make them stay on it longer.

I also believe that the absence of actions or re-actions by the LBS (read detachment) can never disserve you.

Your actions seek to control

Your re-actions seek to defend

When you stand there quietly as he is whizzing fastballs by your head what happens?

Eventually he gets tired of throwing fastballs?

Irish you gotta get yourself to the eye of the storm where its calm.

This storm is going to rage on...

You can't control it so let it go on without you.

Let it go.

....Mach get back to work!

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am