Stop grovelling. It obviously didn't work. He just stepped up the pace of the divorce.
Whether or not you can save your marriage, your focus needs to be on YOU. Can you make fourleafclover happy? I bet you can, but you have to stop worrying about "what is going to make him happy". That's his job, his focus, and your happiness is not part of HIS thinking.
Stop "talking" about divorce; that's why you hire a lawyer. Let your L do the D talk to his L. I am sure he would prefer it if he could walk out on his M and date many women with no consequences, and so on. That's not going to happen.
Your L will ask for what you are entitled to under the law. It's just business. Take yourself and your emotions out of that process.
Take your mind off of it by hiring a competent attorney, and put your focus on making you a better, healthier, happier person.
Screw everything else for now.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/26/1001:13 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
