Hey,

Well I was going to say that just because we have different last names doesn't mean that we (baby and I) don't want him to be in our family. And I was going to say that she and I want his influence in our lives and that if he goes abroad-- or whatever choices he makes-- affects us.

So not exactly saying I want to be with him, but I guess that might come out.

I do think he'll be surprised. Especially after last night!

Does he often play the victim? I don't really think so. I think he likes to play the tragic beat poet. For example, last week we watched a documentary on Chet Baker. (I think that's his name.) He was a jazz trumpeter who couldn't stay put. A large part of the docu was his wife and kids talking about how unreliable he was and how they just wanted him to be there for some of their big events. But he wasn't and they still loved him.

WH fancies himself like Chet Baker at times.

I told him this back in January. I said he had a dream from when he was 12 of being a tragic beat, and he was holding on to it waaaay too long.

Anyways, I'm not sure if the convo will be Sat or Sun. We'll see. He made no commitments to come over this weekend at all.

TTYL. smile