Desperately need help on this!!!

A bunch of my friends came in from out of town this weekend to stay with me, see each other, and basically have a fun get-to-gather over the weekend. My wife and I had planned for her to take our puppy for the weekend since I would have too much company and stuff going on...and plus, she missed spending time with our puppy.

After I let her know that my friends and I had all left the house for the night, my wife came over to get the dog. When we all got back home...I found a card waiting on my pillow from my wife. The actual letter reads: (Outside) Whats Up?, (Inside) Been thinking of you!. What she personally wrote in the card is this: Hey!, Just wanted to say hi and hope everything is going alright. I know you have a fun weekend planned with your friends so I wanted to give you a little something. I know it's not much, but have some drinks on me. I'm not doing this because I pity you Michael, or I feel sorry for you - I'm doing it because I want to and I care. Have a great weekend and I'll call you Sunday evening before I bring Sophee back. Have fun this weekend, (heart), Me. P.S. I put some pumpkin bars in the refrigerator =)

She left me $40 in the card and desert in my fridge!!!!!! WTF do I do?!?!?!?! It's sweet and insulting at the same time!!! I'm going to respectfully thank her for the money, but give it back and suggest we use it to buy food for our puppy instead of beer for me...but aside from that...I don't know how I should respond/react to this gesture!

AAAAAAHHHHHHH...LOL Please help!!!

Last edited by Mike.4545; 06/26/10 10:20 AM.

M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children