Sandi...I hadn't really thought of that dynamic but I understand what you're saying. Do you have any advice on how to avoid that situation? Do I need to stand more firm (be more in her face) in opposition of her having any type of relationship outside our marriage. I've already told her I would give her space to help herself, but I would not stand for her pursuing another relationships right now...and that if she did, I would file for divorce myself.
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children
