Not to argue okay but what does the annulment do to your children's legitimacy? If the marriage was never valid in the eyes of the church (is this Catholic or a legal annulment you're seeking?) To me I don't see the advantage of an annulment when you have kids.It can be risky. In some of their eyes it negates them. I mean, how do you tell them you were never married in the eyes of God but, they are here in your life? Are they "bastards"? No offense meant, I'm just curious about the unintended consequences.
Of course It may not ever come up, but it sure did for my sister, who married in the Catholic church to a fellow Catholic. They had 3 kids and HE sought the annulment after leaving her for OW, and 22 yrs of M...oh and now he's an aggressive atheist...to which I say, "it shows".
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016