I like your goals, NM. I know you are a bit ahead of me, but I am not in a dissimilar place...
Good luck with the packing. Just look at his stuff as that; just "stuff" and don't allow yourself to dwell on the memories. I think if you make it too meaningful, you will start to feel pretty low.
You don't need to feel low again to accept what it happening to you, IMHO. You can chose to be brave and say positive things for yourself even when you are doing the job. Courage!


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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