Wow newmama! I appreciate all your thoughtful input. Thanks for spending so much time catching up on my situation!
I check in on your thread every day, I just don't always post...your H is still expressing doubts and you haven't gotten to the actual point of being divorced yet so I hold out hope that things can/will turn around for you.
Well it is 2:30 here, I have gotten caught up on laundry and while putting things in drawers for the kids, I started pulling things out for the yard sale I want to have in July. I over-shopped for late-winter/early-spring clothes for the kids. Now that they are here 60% of the time, I need 40% less clothes. Gotta remember that... On the other hand Nathan has grown like a weed since last summer! His shorts fit okay but some of his shirts are too short.