slowly allowing myself to imagine new dreams and other possible futures for me and my baby girl.
I bet most of us can relate to these-
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The catch: can do the work necessary to move forward when I don't have to deal with WH, especially in person.
Goal: to be able to control my feelings and stay strong and calm in the presence of WH on his return.
yeah, no contact or just not having to see the spouse can make it soo much easier to move forward and detach! But then they show up and we see them in person...it is enough to go back 50 steps sometimes!
Wow your bub is a month old already????
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
