Newmama asked me on my old thread what changes I am making. Good question!
- I am learning to be resonsible for my own emotions and not letting WHs decisions define who I am. This will take a long time but I can feel the beginnings of it.
- slowly allowing myself to imagine new dreams and other possible futures for me and my baby girl.
- make decisions on my own & stop fearing disapproval.
The catch: can do the work necessary to move forward when I don't have to deal with WH, especially in person.
Goal: to be able to control my feelings and stay strong and calm in the presence of WH on his return.