Wii, your life isn't pathetic but why leave that part unfinished? In the words of Nike: Just do it! When I hear or see that a woman is separated yet looking for a guy I visualize drama. Just get it over with and really look at those match making sites as a free man. OT maybe a bit direct but even I've subtly mentioned it before.
In the end it's your choice but I see a lot of dating/relationship potential in you.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again