OK, my brother and his fantasy life (minus W living with OP). I would ask him what he thinks the issue is rather than tell him what it is. I may even suggest that he hasn't moved on and see what he thinks. I would mention counselling to help him as a way to clarify the issues for himself. I would ask whether he is spending time with his ex because he hasn't given up or for other reasons. I would help him look at what is good in his life too. Yes, I would probably say "you don't seem that happy to me". That's it for now! I gotta go as my daughter is having Facebook withdrawls.
