And yes EC, we know you are telling him how you FEEL, but how you FEEL is not going to STOP HIM
CONSEQUENCES stop him... DISCOURAGE NEGATIVE BEHAVIOUR will make him think TWICE
If I go out the door, she's gonig to feel bad... Tha'ts not a discouragement for him at all
If I go out th door, something's gonna happen that I don't want to happen...
THAT will stop him... and unfortunately you feeling bad right now isn't something that's gonig to stop him.. He's got a wall up and can't empathize or sympathize with YOU... with HIM he can.. so it has to be a consequence for HIM...
