Thanks SS, I appreciate your feedback. I know I am being tested regularly around here.
Last night things did not go as expected on an outing but I remained cheerful. It's my new "go with the flow" self. H was thrown off by my positive mood, so he prodded me by saying "I know you must be disappointed that our plans fell through". I was quick to let him know that I was not at all disappointed, we had a good night all together, even if it was off plan. Nothing wrong with that!