She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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She told me yesterday that she see's D as the only option at this point, but that even after the d is final we may still find ourselves back together. She said she will never close that door.

I must say i really don't understand this logic at all. The other option is to work on this thing and know for sure we've gone down every avenue.

I watched my W use such illogical 'logic'. It doesn't make sense because there is no sense to it. Has she ever explained to you why she thinks a D is the only option??

I like you, we get along really well, we've been married all these years, we have kids together, I want to spend time with you, we may get back together down the road....but I see D as the only option.

I'm not sure what universe that makes sense in, but it doesn't seem to be the one I live in.

She's bailing - for what? There has to be something. Another person, a mid life crisis...something.

Next time she says - I see D as the only option, ask her what the other options are. Let her list them out without your help...lol. I'm curious to know what she sees as 'the other options' that are no good.