It sounds more like an emotional issue than strictly physical. When was the last time you actually "made love" and not wham bam thank you maam sex?

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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