To update my sitch - not much to update. I was not able to look at H's cell while he was in the shower this morning as I slept through it. Going to try tomorrow! It's somewhat of a sickening feeling, just thinking about finding something, I will admit. BUT...I do believe knowing is better than not knowing if at all possible.
No communication from H today at all after sending the email yesterday and never replying. No texts, unless I texted him first. (Had to - to let him know sons' schedules for the evening.)