The title of your thread caught my eye because I have recently read a book called Getting Back Together (2nd edition), and it has highly focused information about separation and reconciliation. It's a great read. In it, there are two facts that you might find interesting. One, 80% of married couples separate for 2 months or more at some point in their marriage. Two, 14% of couples who divorce remarry each other.
I don't know if this might help you, but it certainly gave me hope when I was feeling particularly down. Thinking of you
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004