Husband's behavior is confusing

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Waterbur:
Your sitch has amazing parallels with mine, although the genders are reversed. I am short on time right now, but I encourage you to find and read my thread. My W went all the way to the signing stage before her fog lifted, and she realized she was making a mistake. I went through months and months of the emotional rollercoaster, but hung in there through the ups and downs (with an amazing amount of support from the wonderful folks on these pages). I am not out of the woods by any stretch of the imagination, and we have lots and lots of work to do. Time and patience is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL. Baby steps, just baby steps. As long as you are moving forward, you are making progress. Be strong, and hang in there, and I will check back tomorrow when I get home. You can do this!!!!