HOLD it Antonia, you are a walking TIME BOMB here... You need to get control of yourself and stop acting on impulse.. plan a strategy and act on that plan... supress the impulses
Divorcing someone when you are HURT and CONFUSED and FRUSTRATED is NOT a good idea...
First, do you WANT a divorce?
If you DON'T then why are you telling him to GO?
If that's your strategy I don't have a lot of confidence in it...