Heartbroken and needing help!

[irishblessings]

You talk about mixed messages - H calls and says to me "just wanted to see if there was anything going on that would prevent me from working an extra hour this evening?"
Say what?????
No - not that I know of. H asks if S and I have plans - I say not at this time. More small talk / ok he says "I'll call after work."
FF to after work - no call but does text S to ask what was going on.
S texts invite to dinner - H replies "no not tonight"
Good Lord - no wonder you have to detach - it's in it's out it's up it's down - the MLC Dance!