Just wanted to let you know that I understand exactly how you are feeling. Limbo sucks and so does not knowing the answers to things! So many questions so little answers.
Just wanted to tell you to keep up the good fight and that I'm thinking of you. My D should be final now (just waiting to hear from the court) and XW is 1000 miles away living with OM. Not sure when and if she will see the light and I'm moving along with my life. She has been sending me e-mails about "financial" things and has also been making comments that let me know that she has been keeping up with me on Facebook so I guess that is something.
Will your W see your changes? If you think about all the "intel" you've been doing on her you wonder if she has been doing "intel" on you in the same way. She may or may not be but that is why we do the changes for us and it doesn't matter if she sees them or knows about them. It just makes us better people for ourselves and possibly someone else in our future. That could be your W or someone else. Obviously we all want it to be our spouse or we wouldn't be here but who knows what the future holds.
Just wanted you to know that I was still here and supporting you!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
