Wow, I didn't realize my life sucked that badly! You can take any fact and spin it whatever way you want. OT has spun a very depressing picture of both me and my life. I disagree. I have no no fantasies about my wife and I getting back together, nado. If I choose to do things with the mother of my children WITH my children, I don't see how that is such a horrible thing. It's usually a special occasion thing, not some weekly event. Now, if I was doing these things in the hope of reconciliation, well that would be dumb...and depressing. So, I probably should file but to say I have no intention of ever filing is wrong, it's just not a priority. Maybe it should be OT thinks so. Does it pull me into some black abyss, I don't think so. Again, OT disagrees, fair enough. As far as CB, yes I was hurt by the way she chose to ditch me. No argument there, but is it a reason I haven't dated since? No. I never saw an A with her as the outcome, in fact, it was really a no win sitch for both of us, so it made no sense from the beginning. I sure loved the attention though. yet, it was a weird situation which was what it was and should never have been, if that makes any sense! Btw, I do have a Turtle and she's pretty darn good company! (I hope that wasn't self deprecating humour?)
Oh, and I do understand that dating is much better if both parties are done with their last partner. So OT, I will give it some thought
