OUCH! Putting it all that way really does put it in perspective doesn't it? You certainly couldn't want that for your brother, then why do you want that for yourself?
I haven't followed your sitch for very long and I guess I didn't realize your W lives with her A partner????? Really? GAG!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!