Just let it roll off. She can only get to you if you let her. Trust me, if you ignore the drama and BS, stick to your boundries and good life, it with definately get under her skin.
I now know this from experience and although my XW left me, she feels as if she's the one left behind. I now have great people in my life, live in the place I've always wanted to and am finally happy. She lives with the loser she left me for, who has no job (do they ever?) and just sits on her couch playing video games and drinking.
karma is a B@tch.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08