Understand that I only get view of your life that you decide to show me. Sometimes I fill in the blanks with best guesses. : )OR Assumptions. Bad, I suppose. Different word: Conculsions.
You know your Husband...normally better than anyone here. However...WE know MLC tendenccies better and what GENERALLY works better when dealing with an MLCer.
That is why if something STINGS, then you need to really look at why. I am seriously NOT trying to hurt you, I don't kick puppies on my way to work or set kitten on fire. But if I can get you to think...differntly than you have, you have a better chance of DBing correctly.
DBing is by the way for you...not saying that DBing correctly WILL save your marriage...but it will save you. My friend Drew says that, and it is true.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
