Jack - You present some very challenging perspectives for me - and I'll admit - some I've never considered. Always considered myself as sensitive and intuitive - but this situation (and your viewpoints) have sent me spinning into a "Venus-Mars" kind of world. My slip-up on Monday was meant as punishment - these other decisions (best of both worlds or not) are really not intended that way. How am I to know what is right - I've always been told (even by H) that I am TOO tolerant, TOO accepting, etc. I know that H looks fondly on our family life - it is our M that he is disgusted with and that translates (at least in my mind) to me.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
