Par, 41 years old??? Your life is over??? My mom and 2 of her sisters met their current loves at 40, 45, and 47 years of age. I know they are women, but their lovers (two are married, one isn't) are within a few years of their age. And now they are 57-60 years old. ANd going strong.

please keep updating so we know you are ok.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004