Only one of our D's has any sort of regular contact, and that is through texting. I don't text. In the last five weeks, there has been only that one reason to contact him at all. I simply regret doing it. He has no access to Email at the moment, I believe.
ANYWAY, what I meant was that, Irish, you do have options, and if staying dark from your H is calming and healing to you, by all means, do so. It is certainly the way I plan to go from now on. Besides, I truly believe that all any WH is after is the ego stroke that you can't get along without them. As a 20 year Army wife, mine knows I can, and it doesn't help his ego a bit.
