I remember the pain. Pain is the message telling me to make changes. I change my beliefs, my thoughts, the way I speak, the way I behave, where I am, who I spend time with, the way I dress, the work I do, the hobbies I am involved in, the way I parent....
This is what I ask my self:
"Why do I feel this way? Do I want to feel this way? What can I change about me to feel different?
Making all the changes, and continuing to make changes got me to happy.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712